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January 23, 2014

Published by: Laura

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About to kick off our first weekend of summer brea

About to kick off our first weekend of summer break! 💃🏻Wyatt's official last day of kindergarten was Thursday. ☺️ This boy manages to fill the role of both the most serious and goofy six year old I know. He loves Minecraft, Fortnite, Star Wars, raising chickens, riding the GoKart and is an avid reader. He is a fun loving, obnoxious, protective big brother all wrapped up in one. He blows me away daily with the depth of his thoughts and questions and will forever be the little boy that made me a mama.
I love him fiercely and cannot, CANNOT believe he is now a 1st grader! #weewyattgraham

I make him a bologna and cheese sandwich with jala

I make him a bologna and cheese sandwich with jalapeño chips everyday.⁠
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It's become almost a meditative experience for me: spread the mayo just like so, layer the cheese, then the bologna, stack the bread on top and then a execute a clean diagonal slice through the middle of the sandwich. Pile the chips onto the plate, serve with a smile.⁠
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The first day he started working from home I made him this sandwich and was genuinely over the moon about doing so. We were all healthy. We were all safe. We were all home. It felt special, I felt grateful. Another little way to show him I love him. What more could I ask for? ⁠
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But today as I made that diagonal slice, the kind that is honestly just a little too fancy for a simple bologna sandwich, I didn't feel so over the moon about it. Isn't it strange how that happens? Why is it that our "get tos" somehow become our "have tos"? At what point does that simple perspective shift take place? ⁠
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All I know is that tomorrow I will do better to choose joy over getting the opportunity to show love to the man who is just as grateful for his 59th bologna sandwich as he was for the 1st. Whose only request for lunch in the first place is, "a bologna sandwich."

"I clutch the edge of the kitchen sink, hunched an

Happy Saturday! Hoping to make a little more head

Happy Saturday! Hoping to make a little more head way on rearranging the nursery this morning... I find myself with three hooligans — I mean helpers. 😬 I meant helpers... 🤫😉 #matriarchhandmade

There are always dirty dishes in the kitchen sink.

There are always dirty dishes in the kitchen sink. ⁠
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A perpetual stream of toddlers pants or toddler shirts soaking, pretreated from some chocolate ice cream spill or chicken poop incident. ⁠
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Without fail banana bread crumbs and dried up play doh bits rest under the kitchen table. ⁠
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Work is repeatedly interrupted by the shrill screams of a toddler learning to use her voice or the incessant bickering of brothers. ⁠
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Invariably someone is crying. Inevitably someone yells.⁠
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And is anyone still homeschooling anymore, I mean reeeally...?⁠
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The time I find for words, for writing, has always been in the margins. Words scribbled here, sentences typed there. Now the margins are narrower. Really to call them margins at all is laughable at this point. Yes, I am laughing out loud at the mere prospect of there even being space for *margins* now.⁠
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And yet here I am, fighting for them anyway. Attempting to string together characters that form the words and sentences that fill mind, move my heart and stir my soul.⁠
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When I look into the crevices of our life, I find darkness and dirt and other gross bits that I am tempted to cast aside. But, often enough, as I search through the dark I find things that were once lost. Precious gems that may otherwise have been forgotten. ⁠
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I pray I'm never so proud that I cease searching for those forgotten things — the truly precious moments and meanings that the world sometimes encourages us to overlook. Might I relinquish my endless hunt for the light when there is so much to be found in the dark.

Tired eyes, unwashed hair day number...?🤷 And a

Tired eyes, unwashed hair day number...?🤷 And a bump that will likely outgrow these overalls before it's all said and done. This is #32weeks⁠⠀
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#pregnancy #babybump #thirdtrimester #thebump #babybelly

#30weeks yesterday.✨ According to most obstetric

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I let her have her solid chocolate bunny thinking

I let her have her solid chocolate bunny thinking she could just gnaw on it while I did a few things in the kitchen... Next thing I know, she’s through the ears and onto the head. 😂 Girl can put away some chocolate! (Just like her mama 😆🙈)

“Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of

“Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light” -Albus Dumbledore, J.K. Rowling

How many times have you seen a quote like this one? One that reveres the light and despises the dark? Positions the light as being full of answers and next steps but the dark as only a place of hopelessness and fear?

What if there is good IN the dark that we so readily turn away from? The same dark we relentlessly seek to destroy with the light.

Does a seed not sprout deep in the darkness of dirt?
Does life giving water not dwell far beneath the Earth’s well lit surface?
Do buds not sprout from trees that have rested bleak and lifeless all winter long?

Does life not begin in the dark pitch of a mother’s womb?

Our human condition dictates that we always seek to separate the light from dark. Marking them with divisive words like good vs. bad, joy vs. pain, etc.
But does the brightest of light not also cast the darkest of shadows? Can the deepest of shadows hope to exist without light? The two — light and dark — cannot be separate. They were never meant to be.
I am convinced that much of our own discomfort, pain, and turmoil lies in our own futile attempt to create a division between the two — the light and the dark. In seeking the light and casting out the dark we succeed only in diminishing the abundance the two have to offer, together.
I am a self-proclaimed light junkie, I know what it is to chase the light. But I also know what it is to stare into the darkness. To be faced with that darkness for so long that you stop trying to escape it and instead, begin to explore it. There is good found in the dark too. There is truth found in the dark too. Not alongside, not adjacent, nor in spite of, but within. Deep within.

Day 27 of Forty Days of Writing the Everyday (work

Day 27 of Forty Days of Writing the Everyday (workshop by @exhale.creativity and @calliefeyen) and I have successfully completed, wait for it, ONE day. One day! 😩⁠⠀
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I want to be a writer. I AM a writer. I want to write something meaningful. Something that resonates. I want to write a book! Why have I then avoided writing 26 out of the last 27 days? Why have I avoided writing the better half of this last year? I don't know, I don't know...⁠⠀
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But I'm not going to use anymore time trying to figure out the answer to that question BEFORE I sit down and write. Today I flex my writing muscles. "Practice my scales." And if there is an answer to my question I will find it as I go. Not as I sit, but as I go. ⁠⠀
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I can’t remember the last time I wore Wyatt in t

I can’t remember the last time I wore Wyatt in the baby carrier or wrap. I can’t remember the last time Thurser fell asleep in my arms. I savored the moments. The ones they tell you to, the ones that slip away. I would even dare say I savored them more than most. But here we are again, these days are numbered. I have thrived watching her thrive. Watching her limbs grow beyond the neat confines of my arms. Feeling her weight grow heavier against my chest. Our days are numbered and the taste is just as bittersweet.

And just like that, #21weeks. All went well with

And just like that, #21weeks.
All went well with the 20 week ultrasound (🎉) but I held off on announcing thinking I could come up with some fun way to announce the sex of our last little family member. Then I was like, who am I kidding? This is baby number FOUR, folks. Ain’t nobody got time for that.🤷🏻‍♀️😆 It’s a BOY my friends. A baby boy!

DONNA UPDATE: We got some pretty great news last

DONNA UPDATE:
We got some pretty great news last week... Donna’s bloodwork shows that she’s headed in the right direction! Her blood count is up, indicating we are resolving her B12 deficiency anemia. She’s continuing to gain and grow like a champ (now at the 16th percentile, up from the 3rd that she plummeted to). We will continue all the meds and supplements she’s on now, do repeat bloodwork in a few weeks and then re-assess.
A round of applause for the 17 month old that has had so many blood draws now I’ve lost count, please!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Yesterday was the one year anniversary of Donna's

Yesterday was the one year anniversary of Donna's open heart surgery. To put it simply, I have felt all the feels. ⁠⠀
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The last two months have been a wild ride. At the beginning of November we learned that Donna had not only stopped gaining weight, but was losing weight -- rapidly. She had dropped almost a whole pound since mid September. ⁠⠀
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A slew of tests, procedures and doctor visits ensued. But by the end of the month, she was down yet another pound. My already peanut-sized girl, who was barely pushing the 20th percentile, was plummeting off the charts. I could hear the troubling tone in the doctor's voice the day we left her clinic to embark on more tests, more procedures. The day the word 'NG tube' was mentioned again. One year removed -- to the day -- from the last time we left the hospital with an NG tube.⁠⠀
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It felt impossible not to be scared. It felt impossible to not think that we were headed into surgery again. I had just lived this. Had I not? Again I desperately prayed that I wasn't watching my daughter wither away...⁠⠀
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Santa Claus! 🎅🏻

Santa Claus! 🎅🏻

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